7 Things to Make Your Boyfriend Jealous

So you want to make your boyfriend jealous? Why would you want to do that? Anger? Jealousy? Insecurity? Do you want to hold on to him through jealousy?

Remember jealousy can be an extremely negative emotion. Maybe what you want to do is just make your boyfriend want you more. If that is what you really want, then forget about making him jealous. But if you still insist on making him jealous, here are seven things to consider before you start your jealousy game.

1. If you succeed in making your boyfriend jealous, then what next? Be sure to have a plan for the actual jealousy that may follow. What is the game you are playing here? Where do you really want to take this to?
2. Do you still care about the relationship? Because if you do and still wish to make him jealous then will the damage be worth this little game playing of yours?
3. How far will you go to get him to feel jealous? Are you prepared to compromise personal principles? Is it worth it?
4. Who else will you involve in your little jealousy scheme? Your friends? His friends? What damage may you be doing to any of these persons when you set out to make your boyfriend feel jealous?
5. What if your boyfriend retaliates likewise? What if he thinks the way to get even is to make you feel jealous and take steps to bring this about? Will you be prepared to deal with the aftermath and your own negative emotions that may follow?
6. How susceptible to jealousy is your boyfriend anyway? Will the guy even notice what you think he will notice? And even if he does, will he even feel jealous? And in the event that he does not notice or pretends not to notice or not to be jealous, are you prepared to deal with your own feelings resulting from this?
7. Finally, is the relationship one that you hope to be a long term one? If it is, your little jealousy play may come back to haunt you - no one likes being played like this, so think of better options to achieve your objective. Of course your options will depend on what you really want to achieve but there are more healthy ways to enhance a relationship if that is what you are really after.

Making your boyfriend jealous may sound like a tempting way to right whatever wrong you are feeling in your relationship, but if you are determined to go ahead and play the jealousy game, be sure to think long and hard about the unintended consequences.

About The Author

G. W. Smikle is a trained writer and the author of "A Gift For You" - an insightful exploration of core principles that affect our every-day life.

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