Dating Other Guys To Make Your Exboyfriend Jealous

There's a pretty fierce debate as to whether or not you should date other guys while waiting to get back with an ex boyfriend. There are those who say it's a good thing, because it will make him jealous enough to take immediate action toward getting you back. But there are others who think it's detrimental to any future relationship you might have with him, especially if you sleep with any of the new guys you date while "on a break".

The truth of the matter is this: dating other people is always okay, so long as you're not doing it for the sole purpose of making your ex boyfriend jealous. In short, don't intentionally pick the hottest guy around and start hanging all over him whenever your boyfriend or his friends can see you... it's lame, desperate, and a little bit trampy. That being said, going out with other guys because you want to meet new people and experience dating life again is totally cool. Not only are you getting back on the horse, but you're also enjoying yourself in a social environment rather that sitting around hoping that your old relationship can be fixed.

Nothing will make an ex boyfriend more jealous than seeing you with another man. If this happens, it should be a fortunate byproduct of you getting back out and having a new life without your ex. In many cases, the shock of seeing you kissing someone else will drive your ex right back into your arms again. This is fine, especially if you've been trying to win back your exboyfriend. But it's not something you should strive for, meaning you shouldn't rely on it happening.

You also don't want to hurt the new guy you might be seeing. If he's getting very interested in you and suddenly you get yanked back into a previous relationship, that pretty much sucks for him. But as long as you're not intentionally deceiving him, or using him to make your ex jealous? Then he's going to have to take his lumps just like everyone else.

So in short, don't date just to instill jealousy in your ex boyfriend. Date for you. Date because you're ready to start dating again, and because you like the guy you're going out with. But if you're hanging all over someone just for the sake of creating jealousy? You might find that approach will backfire on you pretty quickly.

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